Three years of itch in seven years | What is the biggest killer of marriage?

Once upon a time, the horses and horses were very far away, the letters were slow, and they only loved one person in a lifetime. Nowadays, the speed is fast, the takeaway is fast, and the divorce is faster. This minute has just received a certificate. The time for a phone call even the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau Don't go out, Redbooks directly change green. The next-door grandma often said: 'Our generation, things are broken and always think of repairs and can be used, you are not the same, bad directly throw away new ones.'

According to the latest big data on marriage, 2-7 years of marriage are the high incidence of marriage breaks, and the 3-4 years have reached the peak of a divorce. From this point of view, the old-fashioned 'seven-year itch' has gradually disappeared. Instead, it is 'three-year itch', 'four-year itch', or even 'annual itch'...

The threshold for divorce is getting lower and lower, what is the result of the deterioration of the people, or is the wrong person met? What is the biggest killer in marriage?

For most marriages, no one will casually marry or marry a person he does not love. In the case of free love, free integration, the original appearance of marriage should be full of happiness and love. Why can the time be longer? The more unhappy it is, the thousands of reasons for divorce, but these reasons are all due to one word, that is 'disappointment'.

Problems such as domestic violence, feelings of incompatibility, extramarital affairs, and contradictions between mothers and fathers have always been among the top reasons for divorce. These reasons seem to be caused by different phenomena. However, behind the phenomenon, they often reflect the same problem. There is an error between husband and wife. Get along with the model. The wise person discovers the mistake in time, solves the problem one by one through the joint efforts of both parties; while the dull person is left to intensify the contradiction, and finally becomes to the edge of the marriage under the accumulation of disappointment.

In the final analysis, the biggest killer in marriage is himself. With a high probability, it is you who have personally destroyed your own happiness. Of course, we never doubt that some people who perform poorly may even change if you have wisdom. No one is evil, but for most normal people, marriages that want to have happiness can only be done by themselves.

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