After graduating from college, I worked in a state-owned enterprise in Beijing for many years and was fortunate enough to get my account in Beijing. In 2005, I saw a friend started to buy a house, so I also went so far as to buy a commercial house in the southwestern Beijing Three Ring Road. More than 4000 square meters, I bought a set of 116 square meters of 3 Habitat, the price of up to 400000. This was at that time for me is a distant astronomical figure, because my salary is only 4,000 yuan.But I said I am a courageous man
With his family's financial assistance and save tens of thousands of dollars saved for years, down payment of 150,000, 250,000 loans, 10 years, so silly to buy it. So, five years later, I paid off my mortgage, and 10 years later, in early 2016, I sold the house for 4.95 million. As for the reason for selling houses, one was unsatisfactory at the time; the other was that the aged elderly in the family were in poor health and needed care; the third was persuasion by relatives and friends in the hometown; and the fourth and most important point was my judgment. Beijing prices have peaked, may fall at any time, so I sold it with amazing courage, but also resigned from Beijing's work. Holding 500 million huge sums of money, like the victory of a general victory as triumphant, back to life I raise my hometown - an 18-line rural areas. As a result, spent more than 30 million, quickly ruined their broken houses, overshadowed a three-story small mansion, to parents to live.I spent another 400000, in the city center to buy a set of 120 square meters of junior Habitat. Plus decoration, buy a car, and 'borrow' to relatives and friends, parents, brothers and sisters sponsorship fee, the hands of a remaining 300 million, respectively, kept regular, balance treasure, also bought finance and insurance, sitting interest. In this way, the day of my dream fairy finally arrived. -2- Help the elderly cure the disease, to participate in a variety of friends gatherings, all kinds of eating Hussein, but also to visit other countries, so happy to spend half the year .This half is really happy, no pressure . One year passed and one year passed.At the end of 2016, the house I sold had risen to 8.7 million, nearly 4 million. This started to make me a little uncomfortable. With the change of mentality, I also began to feel a little more tired of my life. Beijing's circle of friends has gradually disappeared, although many friends around, but always feel something missing. I do not seem to fit into this play mahjong every day, talking to the same quarrel, a rain full of muddy, a village filled with all kinds of fertilizer flavor of life. That's wrong, this is not my imaginary fairy life at all. Go to the town's largest supermarket to buy something and found that whatever is more expensive than Beijing.A bottle of 2L Coke, usually in the 8-9 dollars, while Beijing I remember it will be more than a bottle of 5, expensive, but 6 Bucks money. However, what I can not tolerate most is, expensive no problem, but buy something unattentive is the cottage goods such as' OO sugar ',' drift soft shampoo ',' the United States and the fans' and 'Wang Good milk '. Want to go to work, only to find here did not find suitable for my business, and even here there is no Internet industry. -3- After experiencing untold hardships, and finally found a job with the Internet detached into the company for a few days to know, even let me do the network management.I am a senior architect engineer, holding a 2000 dollars salary is no problem, but also To do network management, but also repair the computer? The most prosperous place in our downtown area is also equivalent to the urban-rural part of Beijing, even worse. Want to go to the cafe for a friend to sit, sorry, no! Want to eat a sea fishing, green tea, feeding? No, even want to eat junk food KFC and McDonald's, this is there, but the name is two One of the 'McCann Erickson'. Can you imagine that a foreigner who lived in Beijing for more than 10 years returned to his hometown with all kinds of embarrassment? So chaotic, although the body covered 3 million huge sums of money, although the interest is enough for our family's crazy spending, however, I feel waste.I can not see the future, my future may be the case - Holding money, waiting to die. When one's spirit collapses, everything becomes ill. Elderly condition once again aggravate, treatment, rescue has spent hundreds of thousands, but still not rescued. Afterwards, once again, I made a bold decision with my courage - to kill Beijing. -4- Beijing city, so many people hurt and happy. One third of the wages are handed over to the landlord and intense work is overwhelmed. The people who walk on the subway can feel the rapid pace of life here. However, talking about working in Beijing, I believe the majority of people My heart still with a few proud. Here are the highest wages in the country, countless job opportunities, the best commercial, medical and educational resources, and my group of friends. Returning to Beijing again and back to the neighborhood I had lived in, my eyes were a bit fuzzy, and while everything was so familiar, my home was no longer mine and I could not go back. At this time, with my original apartment price has been more than 900 million, and I want to thank the 317 New Deal, thanks to purchase restriction policy, or 317, the current price must be over 10 million. However, this 9 million is still out of reach relative to the 3 million in my pocket. Since I had had a loan record in Beijing before, now I can only buy two sets of repo and 60% down payment. Million, but also the gap of more than 200 million. I really do not want to rent, but also had previous experience, I have determined that my later life will spend in Beijing. -5- So, I patchwork to 3.5 million, paid down payment, in the same district and bought a set of nearly 6 million small two, more than 70 square meters. Three months later, I finally moved into a new home, although smaller than before, but I feel very practical and very satisfied. Fortunately, the company I left two years ago, recommended by my colleague, took me again. My job back, my circle of friends came back, my life back, my Xiabu Xiabu, my tea, my McDonald's KFC, I finally returned to life two years ago. Now, even the boss rushed me angry when I scolded me, I think it is so handsome. Today, my biggest dream is to - work hard, fight until I retire, in exchange for the house with 116 square meters of Sanju district. Annex: Why do I suggest you stay in Tier 1 cities 1 First-tier cities have three kinds of treasure: entrepreneurship, investment, road shows, people rely on the ability to stand up a lot of people. Three or four cities also have three kinds of treasure: doctors, teachers, civil servants, this is the city's most decent occupation. Tier cities more open, a lot of opportunities, there are also a lot of ability, so we balance each other, we can only follow the rules to each other; second and third tier cities more closed, is spell father and unspoken rules, more elegant ways of the world. The more opaque a local rule, 'hidden rules' living space greater than the capacity of an important relationship, calculating more than effort;. Comparisons than life; In fact, there is no easy life in this world. People in first-tier cities are tired and rhythm. People in third and fourth tier cities are tired of living. Perhaps life is only two ways: Either you desperately to create value Either you are quiet waiting for the old But: Only hard-working people are eligible for fairness.
2 Author: sunny also Zoe; Source: Jane books From the appearance point of view, first-tier cities, skyscrapers, entertainment, bustling, big development platform, and more resources, but also hidden behind the bustling tremendous competitive pressure, may boarded the pinnacle brilliant today, tomorrow may fall altar lose everything , Mercilessly eliminated. Fourth-tier cities, leisurely slow, no hustle and bustle, few people, although the wages are not high, but there is no pressure of high prices and high prices, there is no luxury decoration mall, but one or two small shopping centers are sufficient to meet people's needs. Luxury cars luxury, even if really come up with Coach, Prada on the street, not many people recognize all day open the TV, local station broadcast will always be, xx district Wang Aunt said the district sewer pipes blocked, for a long time property No matter, so I found the help of television stations and the like. After all, there is really no big news to be reported. In the past, I naively thought that this should be all the difference.After two years of living in Guangzhou, I found that the first and fourth lines, the difference is not the most important matter, but the pattern and vision. Living in the fourth-tier cities, the most terrible is that with the kinship and parental resources often can easily take away most people who ordinary people want to get through hard work.If you see who has done a very good job or what special treatment, A response is not to praise this person is very capable, but to gossip must be someone at home, the background can be hard hard fight spell, what to do to find the relationship. I am not saying that big cities do not have such a situation, but also, but not so exaggerated, after all, life is not equal, but at least the first-tier cities can make people see that if we work hard, one day I can get what I want. In contrast, the big cities are more fancy personal ability, will also provide more opportunities for development, see the good people will meet with me, thinking about the difference between me and the best people in the end, how do I want Only to be able to get promoted, rather than using the speculation behind someone to paralyze themselves, give up their own efforts to find an excuse. My father lives all his life in his hometown and earns hard-working money with his own hands. In his eyes, civil servants are the most decent and best professionals. He really hoped that I would listen to him when I was in this small town and be a civil servant. In my life, I spent my whole life, even now, every day is not only three sentences from the civil servants in high school, I think my dad's idea is good, not inconsistent with the civil servants.But since Guangzhou, saw more exciting start Think of self-worth, only to think before their own horizon is too narrow.People finally lived a lifetime, how can you think about leisurely comfortable comfortable life? Regardless of the success or failure should fight for their own future ah, Everything you want, you should strive to win ah. So now when I talk about civil servants and my dad, there's no way to talk about it anymore.I quarreled with him many times, but neither of us could change each other.He also found many elders to persuade me and hopefully I will one day Can start to realize that I started silly, always positive resistance, and now I gradually understand that, in fact, the reason why he would, because to become a civil servant is he saw the best way of life, ah, he has not seen even more exciting Work, he did not understand to do a favorite work even if it is very tired but also very sweet feeling. First-tier and fourth-tier cities, each with its own good and bad .Everyone has their own place to be .No right or wrong, excellent and bad. I gave birth to my place, I can not be a little nostalgia at all, after all Here are my loved friends and relatives.Make me really know the place where the growth of thinking has an extraordinary attraction for me.This wonderful feeling is like "John" in the phrase, 'I I was blind, now I see.' I was blind in the past, and now I can see. 3 Sun Qing Yue Hemingway said a word: 'If you are fortunate enough to live in Paris as a child, then Paris will follow you wherever you are.' Where you were when you were young and where you lived in, they have a profound impact on you Paris, New York, Beijing, or Dali, Guilin, and the three-tier town where we live. Because every city has its inherent temperament, and this temperament will be in your youth, quietly infiltrate you, affect you, change you. If you ask me, what is most important to a girl in her 20s? Then it must be: Horizons. How can we have a broader horizon? I think, on the big city is good or small city in the end, the eternal question finally has a very clear answer. If you have a chance, do not be indifferent to comfort and warmth, you want to live in a big city when you are young. It gives you a diverse set of values that tells you that life is not the only way to live. There is a problem with knowing that there is a kind of experience that has been to more than 100 countries and one of the answers made me very impressed. 'I understand that there is no so-called natural correctness and absolute political correctness in this world and can accept that people have different three perspectives and ways of thinking that are derived from them.' In this era of prejudice, incomprehension and even disagreement, we can accept how important it is that different people have different views and different living laws. It directly determines your tolerance, your relationship with others Your ambition. Then you do not have to deal with the intimacy of the seven aunts of the third-tier cities because they do not know 30+ girls, have careers, have love, live colorful lives, complain about not enough time, and too Many of the wonderful people who did not have time to experience are living in the commercial society and the love they want proudly, and the dismal status of the elder women and left-over women who are worldly imagined is simply two worlds. Then, you do not have to go to the primary school classmates to tell you how happy it is to be in the small city where they play badminton at three in the afternoon because they do not know the coolness of working hard in big cities, Those plans that you have adopted are actually taken by tens of millions of users of products that you did not understand when they worked hard to buy and buy themselves. You only have seen the best early, enjoyed the best, experienced the best, you are eligible to say, I choose to live in a big city, or choose to live in a quiet little city. You have seen everything, you Only qualified to choose. If you've been to the most beautiful place in the twenties and have seen the most beautiful scenery, you've seen this world so magnificent and vast that people in this world are so different. Then you will safely accept the joy and misery that life brings to us, for if joy is essential, then we should also be able to calmly accept the temporary setbacks and difficulties. You will understand that you have seen the good in this world. You've seen someone in this world really live the life you want. You know that you deserve anything better, so you will be more assured and more motivated. s hard work.
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