 Dear friends, Good evening, everybody! When Tencent let me do this speech, I just started to refuse, because I saw all are Zhang Jie, Huang Shengyi, as well as Tong Liya, are all stars. And I expected many of their fans present to cheer on them with a variety of flash cards, and no one at the scene would lift my flash card. Found a flash card when no. Later, I think, Tencent relationship with me is not bad, agree to this speech. Speaking of what topic? I think the most convenient for me is to tell my own story, to inspire young friends. As a result, Tencent said that these things will not work, you search these things on the Internet just a search, you have to say a never Have not talked about the subject. What do I say? He said middle-aged people now have many difficulties, you talk about middle-aged people, I think this is intended to spoil my meaning. In particular, I look at the sort of speech, if I row to the rear of Yi-Hsiao, or behind Ma Yuan teacher feel better, the result on the Huang Shengyi and Tong Liya between the two beautiful women, this obviously is ruining me. However, middle-aged man promised to talk as promised, since I put where I have to embark on this stage. To talk about middle-aged men, inevitably want to talk about Feng Tang wrote the article "How to avoid becoming greasy middle-aged insignificant man." In fact, insignificant male is not limited to middle age, I have seen many adolescent wretched men, also saw A lot of elderly wretched man.I am in Peking University is a wretched man. When "China Partner" came out of the movie, I saw the movie describing me as badly as I was when I was a movie starring Huang Xiaoming, all of whom felt very inspirational and in my opinion, it was not me at all. Later, after watching this movie, I went to my college classmate, and I said you did not think it was a bad idea to look at the film, and what did he say? I said that I did not feel good about it. He said Laoyu ah, this movie has taken you particularly well, when you are not only useless in college, quite insignificant. In fact, everyone has their own growth process, when I was in college and today, I actually prefer today's me. There are two signs: the first sign, reading books in college is not as good as I read today, I read lifeless in college, also studied 800 books. Today, I have read thousands of books. And universities Reading is rote, today I am studying again, it is possible to seriously summarize one of the wisdom, as just mentioned the horse Ma Yuan, can improve the philosophical realm. Five years in college, a woman did not fall in love with me. Today, at least a lot of girls sit and listen to me patiently. This is the middle-aged man's victory. Feng Tang also said that many middle-aged greasy man's features, warned us not to do this not that, in fact, I saw that Feng Tang himself caught in the middle-aged phobia. I am such a middle-aged phobia who never write such a boring article: I was middle-aged, how are you? Feng Tang said do not become fat, do not stop learning, do not stay still, do not talk in front of others, do not educate juniors, do not always remember what to do before. I think this is Feng Tang's own fear, because Feng Tang's book, or is to talk about sex, or is very narcissistic state of his youth. Someone jumped out this time, Gao Xiaosong said Feng Tang you are right, fat and middle-aged greedy men have no relationship, I saw Gao Xiaosong thief shout and thief, nothing to find things you say you a fat man say this? You If you want to say it should also let me, so convincing ah. Followed by Huang Bo, Huang Bo is almost the same role in playing my partner in China, I think Huang Bo Huang Xiaoming more like me.Hong Bo fans jump out, the neck is not short greasy handsome man. Everyone is anxious to come out to leave themselves, in the end is not greasy man, in fact, not the last word, but after a label affixed, people will feel very troublesome. Netizen said a lot of greasy male signs, what the body hang a bunch of keys, holding a thermos cup, drinking Pu'er tea, singing a prairie song, wearing a Tang suit ... ... So I was particularly scared of Ma Yuan teacher dressed in outfit. I was shocked out, I thought I wore a costume, because I am myopic. Later, I carefully looked at the original was a white shirt exposed, I think he is also afraid to become greasy old man did so. In fact, the surface of the mark with greasy men is not much relationship, there are many people on the Internet, if you do not want to be considered a greasy man, you should do something. For example, you want to find your idol love beans, I read below for a long time today, in the end Zhang Jie is my idol? Or Tong Liya is my idol? Or Is it easy Xiaoxing? I do not know. Since you have fallen in love with idols, you have to persevere in love and I want to save my child who can persevere in love with me. Who else in this world can I persevere in love? Relationship is always flowing, and today I love you, maybe I do not love you tomorrow, what happened? You love me today, maybe tomorrow, do not love me, then what about it, right? Very interesting, everyone is on a variety of middle-aged people to suggest that to do this, to do that, then you can not be considered greedy man. Also said to learn the language of young people online, for example, when you want to desperately support someone, such as just so many fans support Zhang Jie, we must crazy for Zhang Jie 'play CALL'. When you talk to others, for example, if I talk to Zhang Jie and talk to Yang Zi, I must say, 'There are B numbers in my heart.' Later, I thought, I would like to say something in my heart. I once gave a lecture at Harvard University on the theme of 4B, and all the students heard the thunderous applause, and I think I would have already met this matter. For example, when Yi Xiaoxing gave a speech, I hope everyone can smile and laugh. Into a pig called, I just heard everyone seems a bit like a pig called feeling, I think, these things seem to me understand. Someone suggested to me that you now have to fight "the glory of the king," and I said that I really wanted to fight, and that new Oriental students were playing too, but I think it is not enough time for me to call "the glory of the king" Five hours of management meeting, there is time to play the "king of glory" it? I have also been young, when I was young to fight the tank battle, every day insist on playing eight hours, hit Peking University first master. What do I want to say? What young people do is not necessarily suitable for our middle-aged people. What we have to do for middle-aged people is not outdated. I asked the New Oriental young girls, I am like a greasy man? Girl said you in addition to the appearance and age is middle-aged, it seems not too greasy man, followed by added to me that the so-called greasy Male, in fact, is kind of mentality. Whether it's 20, 30, 40, or 50, as long as his heart is full of greasy, never grows, stuffy and obscenely stuffy, that's greasy man, and if it's female it can be called oily girl. Rest assured, I think in the end what kind of person is greasy? I will summarize several major characteristics. The first feature is greed. When someone around you particularly likes to be petty and cheap, everything is preoccupied with what you pay for. When a government official thinks that he is embezzling the property of the people, when a woman wants to get married to a man, Money; the man who married this woman wanted the beauty of a woman and could not see her inner beauty ... all of these acts were greedy. Can not wait for the world's good things are their own, all the bad things, bad luck to others over there, such people are typical greed, we are here, whether young or old, as long as such a People should avoid it, because they are too insignificant, too greasy. The second feature is called vulgar. What is the concept of vulgar? Not only is that we say the secular, not only the body wearing the vulgar, like the Northeast sister wear the same colorful, it is not called vulgar, that is folk. What is the real vulgar? For example, we like to show off, show off what? Show off their own appearance, to show off their status, to show off their luxury cars, to show off their wealth at home, to show off what they eat something good, and even some people Out of their own character to show off these people I think in fact is greasy person. Why? He never pursued the richness of his heart except for the outward appearance and the proud matter himself. The third characteristic is to give up myself, I think a greasy person, it is clear to give up the pursuit of a bright future. He gave up the distant heart, give up the beautiful things that can enhance their own, his mind may no longer have lofty, he gave up his progress, and he always thought that the world has everything fixed, and you work hard Can not change their own destiny.If you think you can not change the fate of the hard work, you really can not change their own destiny in this life. A person thinking of the future there will be a future, a person thinking not the future, the future will never come to his side. I always think that even if many good things have been taken over by others, there are still many more good things waiting for us in the world and all we have to do is always trust the future. This is what I think is not greasy Typical sign of people. If you can flow like the Yellow River, if we can flow like the Yangtze River, even as the teacher Ma Yuan said, use the mountain Spring water water their own lives, I think we are not greasy at all. Flow means that we have to go far, turn over the mountain, to see the sea, which is called non-greasy. Greasy fourth feature is loaded .I met a lot of people around me, young people, middle-aged people, the elderly, is installed .It seems that they have gained wisdom to install themselves as a master of Chinese learning, at every turn On the back "moral", at every turn on the "Analects"; himself installed as a field of experts, pretending to be righteous in front of young people awe-inspiring. Finally, if there are mistakes, but also resolutely do not admit that they made a mistake, in front of anyone can not openly face their own dress, I think this is also a greasy. I controlled myself a bit and found that I seemed quite willing to admit my mistakes, but also rather like to laugh at myself, I never felt perfect, so I think I am not installed. Although sometimes I thought I was installed, such as I like to share their own study notes, like to share their travel notes, some people think this is a dress, but I think this is a natural exposition of my life experience only, pretty good. The last feature is lazy. Lazy is what? Appearance of the dirty, do not bath, as Feng Tang said the same, do not take a bath, do not shave that is the appearance of lazy. Inner lazy is not willing to start their own thinking ability, do not want to start their own heart to pursue new things. Sometimes lazy is reflected in the way of hard work, for example, a woman concerned about their appearance all day long, the surface is very hardworking, is actually a lazy. Why? Because she is not confident enough of their inner richness. Men all day long socializing, to know this person, to know that person, want to know Ma today, tomorrow want to know Ma, this is a lazy, because he was No growth in life. So, lazy is not to say lying all night sleeping in management in a word called the lazy entrepreneur is the diligence of tactics to cover the strategic laziness, which is really lazy. When we only focus on how to speculate on this matter, and not concerned about how the development of the overall business trend, can not predict the future, it is a real lazy. When we sit here chasing the stars every day, but did not think that when they grow up, it is also a lazy, because you want to seek the success of others to cover up their own incompetence. As a young man, middle-aged or Ye Hao, want to avoid being greasy, very simple. Not not wearing a costume, not wearing a bracelet, nor is not drinking Pu'er tea, I will hold Thermos, I drink Pu'er tea, because Pu'er tea can warm my stomach, make my body more healthy. Importantly, what should we do as a middle-aged man? I think middle-aged men in fact already have a lot of things in the world, they are mature, they are wise, they are like a plane ready to rush into the sky, and even they have already flew in the sky they can do a lot of things, Because their desires have been properly controlled, they know that using their resources to do good for the community, they also know what is more important where money can be used. They also have a major responsibility. They are responsible for their own children. They are responsible for their own parents. They also respect their own leadership and respect their own colleagues. They are very difficult, more importantly, they are also the pillars of the country.We have not seen that from China's top leaders to China's most famous entrepreneurs, scientists and thinkers, almost all middle-aged men. From the family, the business to the community, these men bear the most significant responsibility, knowing deeply that they will never bend their spine because if they bend over their spine, the entire world will collapse. Especially the young people present here must know how hard your parents are. As middle-aged men and women, they have built a world for you. Nowadays, our young people just say that middle-aged men do not know how to be free, they do not know how to enjoy, and they have no personality. Please remember that your freedom, personality and your site are all due to the sky that parents put on for you Sacrifice your own freedom, sacrifice their own enjoyment, in exchange for your larger world today and in the future. Remember, middle-aged men are not good. This is true. But we can not get rid of some of the lazy middle-aged man For those middle-aged men who have given up on themselves, forging ahead is your only choice.I think no matter middle age or old age, as long as the soul in the body, as long as the ambition in the heart, is Good man When Liu Bei was in his 40s, one-third of the world had nothing to do with him. One time he chatted with Liu Biao and said, "I am not out of saddle and I am missing my flesh. Moon if Chi, the veteran to men, and work is not built, is the sad ear. The reason why he can lay Shu world, it is because of his heart with ambitious, power not built, sad feelings, so his life can go forward. Jiang Taigong at the age of 72 fishing on the edge of the Weihe River, waiting for the King Zhou Wen, the last Zhouwen Wang Zhou Wu Wang two generations of kings with Jiang Taigong lay the world, and Jiang Taigong to the age of 80 established the oldest in ancient China most A famous country, called Qi. So how many years of human life can shine. Reagan, 70, was a successful president of the United States and became one of the great presidents in the history of the United States, and Trump, everyone knows that in the run-up to the presidency last year, a business man's background and finally, the 70-year-old became the president of the United States. If they can change themselves at the age of 70 and want to change the world, what are the reasons why we lazy if we are young people here? I thought for a moment, what should I do after my life? I set a few standards for myself. First, we must always work with young people to help them grow, for the simple reason that we, as middle-aged people, can use their own resources to make use of their wealth and use their own channels to do endless work for young people. The development for young people, I do Hongtai Fund for young people, to talk to young people is also an exchange, and today I said I was to learn, is to learn with the young speaker. Second, I want to continue doing things for China's education, China's children's comprehensive growth education, China's family education, the integration of Chinese education and science and technology, China's poverty-stricken areas and the balanced development of cities, and China's education policy recommendations, I You can do something and try hard to do it. Thirdly, I want to make myself always a funny and interesting person, and although life is meaningful and serious, I find it interesting and interesting to be more important. So I insist on walking each year in several countries in the world and writing cultural travel notes. To any place, I look for local food, fun people, visit the local residents, talk to them. Everywhere I go, I carefully study the past history, current situation and future possibilities of this place, and share these views with young people.I also participate in some interesting sports, horseback riding, skiing, swimming, Walking, are my expertise. Fourth, I also want to turn myself into a person who always has ambition. Up to now, I can read about 100 books a year, which is an upside proof.Improve is not limited to reading, but more is what you want Keep absorbing new ideas, constantly dealing with people who lead the world, and you have to constantly jump out of your comfort zone. People are most likely to stay in comfort zones, and people like myself are comfortable in comfort zones. But we need to be comfortable District, to the future, to prepare for the further take-off of your career. Finally, what I want to say is that when we were at this age, we knew more about the meaning of wealth. Wu Xiaobo once said that money makes the superficial people become more superficial and the profound people become more profound.I hope that I become a profound person and help others and pass on the beauty of life.The world is beautiful and kind It is delivered by Everyone may have heard of such a story. A farmer saved a child from the pond. The father of the child was a big aristocrat. He thanked the farmer for giving him a sum of money. The farmer said he did not need money. Just say so, your children are almost my son, I sent them together to go to school in town. Finally, the farmer's child went to school, and when the child grew up and went to medical school and found penicillin, the child was Fleming, and the aristocratic child had pneumonia when World War II was about to die, Finally, by saving the child's life with penicillin, the kid who was rescued was Churchill, both of whom changed the world. The authenticity of this story I do not want to research, but the significance behind is that when you pass the goodwill to others, this goodwill will be passed to all corners of the world and will eventually be passed back to us. The greatest sadness of life is not impossible, but a person to give up growth, give up goodwill; the greatest place of life is through our mutual goodwill, so that the world has become more beautiful, thank you!
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