 What is the limitation? The limitation is that cutting wood all think that the emperor picked the gold pole. Tseng Kuo-fan said: 'Looking for a major event, the first priority pattern.' There is another sentence: the pattern determines the outcome, we can see how important a person's thinking pattern, to see a person, we must first look at his thinking pattern. First, your thinking pattern, determines the height of your life The curtain of the "blooming moon that year" there is a story of Zhou Ying election. Zhou Ying from Uncle and Uncle Fourth of five grandchildren, choose a stepstalker, for fairness, held a 'election contest', the game is divided into three games, the third test, the most interesting, Than spend money. Twenty-two silver for each child, the request is very simple: limited to spend within one hour, and spend the right place. It is easy to spend money and there is no measure for what it means to spend. Children are satisfied with what they are trying to do to make their aunt happy. How can aunt be satisfied? s things. Yulin bought a discount bracelet, change hands can earn twice, and the more valuable jade bracelets, two years after the value of two hundred two silver, can think of two years later, there is indeed a vision, there are eyesight. Jade into the purchase of ginseng and angelica, although now ginseng and Angelica at the highest point, he did not win the race, just want to make aunt make up for the body. Jade with the buy is to eat and play, spend money happy, of course, spend their own, Yusheng buy a few cars forage, pulled Xingping, at least earn two or three silver. The Jade it, because he did not want to Zhou Ying as his son, so he gave twenty-two silver directly to the four brothers, and then happy to play to. When asked about Jurong, he shouted: 'My brothers are finished? They spent the equivalent of the end of my spend, I spend money on my brother who, as long as they spend their own, I will spend their ' Earn money by skill, and a person spend money way, can see his thinking pattern, Zhou Ying evaluation: Yulin long-term vision, Yusheng proficient in the future are good business. Jade does not take the money seriously, Jade into the good and careful, in the future will certainly be able to publicize Wu's signs, but they all spent the money Things, and Yu Cheng has spent the money on the body. This young age to know the employer, which is far beyond my expectations. Zhou Ying through the phenomenon to see the essence, has pointed out their future life and the height of life, and sure enough, the ending of the drama freeze in the Zhou Ying farewell to board Yu Cheng (later renamed first). , To fly to the broader sky. Your thinking pattern, determines the height of your life. Second, open the gap between people, that is, thinking patterns Twenties, is facing the most life time of choice. For example, graduated, go to big business or small company? To metropolis or small city? Career, is to choose to generalists, or do professionals? Fall in love, is the choice of your loved one or love you ... What kind of thinking you are, will make what kind of choice, what kind of choice you make, it determines your life is like. At first, I graduated from college and returned to my hometown in accordance with the expectations of my parents. I entered a large state-owned automobile company and worked for many years. I have been in the system for a long time. In my first years in the workplace, I worked hard, studied hard, worked hard and progressed very fast. After a few years, engaged in the same long-term work, there is a sense of inertia and burnout, began to enjoy ease, not forge ahead, loss of morale in life, during that period of life is really a bit '25 years old until the age of 75 buried ' a feeling of. My 30-year-old is like playing the 'Find The Stool' game, and everyone runs around the stool, but as soon as he's 30, the music stops suddenly and everyone starts to sit down. I did not want to be the only one standing there, and I was going to sit down and find a stool nearest to myself, my brother, on the contrary, always knowing what he was going to do. After graduation, he also returned to his hometown according to the requirements of his parents, and with a stable job, this is not his pursuit. He yearned for passionate years of burning, and did not want to live a warm frog life. He likes to study computer, has long been planning, his future is in the broad IT field .For this goal, he was early layout, good career planning .Now the stability is only for his future savings. Taking advantage of this period of stability, he hungeringly clutching all the time to learn spare time self-learning computer and network knowledge, classes and classes to learn some computer courses how many wake up late at night, I saw his house lights lit, he either Still reading, or at the computer. Later, when the time was ripe, he quietly resigned to the North drift.Mom knows after a few nights did not sleep well, earnestly advised him: the outside world is very sinister, hard-working, difficult life, or stay in their hometown do not go out. Tears finally failed to block the pace of his brother, his brother left without hesitation. My brother, 30, is in Beijing. He has a car in his home and his family has love. There is also a job he likes. My brother and I are from the same family. Both of us have the same professional qualifications and the same qualifications. However, both of us are 30 years old and different. Have to admit, to widen the gap between people, is the pattern of thinking. Third, out of the original thinking, continuous practice, but also break through the limitations In the drama "Ode to Joy," Qu Xiaoyuan once said something: "What are the limitations? The limitation is that the firewood is thought to have been picked by the Emperor Kim Bum." Different patterns of thinking, cutting wood and the emperor has not been able to cross the gap between the people who drive BMW are trying to Bentley, Chery people always desperately thinking of fuel-efficient, and indeed, what kind of thinking are you pattern, you What kind of life will happen I used to be influenced by my parents and teachers, and parents and teachers educated us from an early age: Life is thrifty and money is saved. Schools and families subtly affect our psychology, habits and thinking patterns and infiltrate our hearts. So I grew up a good habit of frugality, leftovers left over regrettable, hard to eat but also not to waste; buy expensive clothes not willing to wear, only to wear important moment; Exquisite and precious tableware is not willing to use, put is a good many years; junk at home not willing to throw, always thinking about the future can be used ... I used to like to buy Taobao to buy bargains, discount products and gifts. Later found that cheap clothes, wear less than two years, the gifts are either poor quality, or really useless. Really cheap no good goods, the seller will always be Better than buyers. Moreover, spend hours on Taobao browse the selection of things often inappropriate to buy, not as good as direct access to the mall on the spot to buy expensive but also expensive, the key is to save time and effort. This time might as well waste some good things, such as reading, accompanying family or accompany myself, I constantly reflect on myself, and gradually, I changed my own ideas. Leftovers left over and drained, stiff support harmful to health; clothes is used to wear, utensils is used to use, buy is not to use it? Bottom of the bottom is not equipped with these high-end items do you Toss throwing throwing, keep a little use no ... If economic conditions allow, the problems that can be solved by money are to be solved by money, because time is more precious than money.With money saved and money saved, time can be lost, youth lost, happiness lost, and money can not be bought back of. I used to be the poor's thinking pattern, thinking that saving money is money, so more energy is spent on researching how to save money and people's energy is limited. When you are studying how to save money every day, There will not be more energy to study how to make money. Money is spiritual. If you are good at using it, the more you spend, the more you spend. If you are not good at using it, the more you spend less and the less you are willing to spend. The more money you make, the more you pay for it The immediate petty profits or like petty cheap, how can there be a big pattern? Later, I spent my money on buying books, buying courses, constantly investing myself, and finally my own ability was improved, my work was promoted, my expenses were small, and a lot of money was earned. It seems that, although everyone's thinking has its own limitations and is hard to change, it does not mean that it can not be changed.Expanding from the original thinking and practice, you can also break through the limitations. The difference between life, after all, the most fundamental difference between people, is the pattern of thinking.What is your thinking pattern, how high your life can fly. Only the conversion of thinking, enlarge pattern, to break through the limitations of your life will fly higher.
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