 Information explosion of the times, the network so that our lives become very lively. Strange things more, and some read a smile with, and some thought are elusive. Traffic niche published romance, but that is the two young people to do the emotional choice, bystanders, but more excited than the protagonist apprehension; A man in the subway because of the time to speed up the pace, actually scared the whole car people instantly Chung out, farting urine; 'Luo smile' eventually did not stop, the mood of friends also followed in three days the article emerge violently ups and downs: Began to forward without thinking, 'three suites' after the public opinion of the gun, sympathetic Luo Er's encounter dilemma, and finally denounced him to deceive social morality. Chasing hot spots to catch up, and began to complain why things are so complicated. Nobody is willing to admit that he was always led by the nose to go. The French writer, Dumas, said the phrase: 'An idea that does not seem to be worth mentioning, but the danger is so great that he can live on your feet today and tomorrow will be yours.' In the explosion of information flow is ignored, our minds are contained in the human nature of human weakness is being used, and we are controlled by their own weaknesses. Not firm human nature, in the pervasive information center, people into a passive. 01 Someone is using your herd psychic for marketing American famous psychologist Axi has designed experiments: to determine the ABC three lines which with the left side of the standard line length. Four people sitting side by side, the subjects came in the last one of the tested people do not know is that the front row, are professors Axi's assistant. The first two times, in the absence of error guidance, the subjects all answered correctly. Axi said the assistant from the third time to answer the same wrong answer. At the same time, the subjects were dilemma and questioned their choice, and the final results showed that 75% of the subjects had at least one time and the assistants had chosen the wrong answer. When making decisions in life, personal views are often influenced by 'mainstream opinions'. Japan Sony has produced a Walkman player, they did not choose to direct advertising, but sent ten young staff to carry Walkman, walked in the middle of the secondary school, and zoom in volume, pretending intoxicated. After the students see, have come forward to find out how to buy a videotape machine.Many days, Sony's Walkman in Japan's major schools popular. It was like the people who had been queuing up for a few hours to buy 'net red' drinks, and they did not know at first that the crowds were actually a group of 'actors' silently 'shouting'. The popularity of a thing is not necessarily based on the subjective needs of the people, and the herd is as strong as the powerful behind the scenes. Many times we are driven by unnecessary action, even in which the bitterness, only because of the original 'The same as everyone' idea. Whether it is the evolution of the magazine 'fashion trends', or social software on every hot spots will appear 'opinion leaders', the content they need to convey an infection, to imitate the process of popular.This is the 'popular' inevitable, But also human nature is not firm characteristics of the projection. Hope to be sure, hope not to make mistakes, I hope someone else can have, hope that they will always clear the direction. Hermit, to meet the human desire to integrate 'groups', so as to avoid the fear of being isolated. Indeed, as the French social scientist Rene Gillard said, 'The essence of desire is imitation.' 2 Someone is using laziness to play with you in the hands Scottish writer Carlyle said: 'Only in the laziness have eternal despair.' 'Beauty' is the eternal pursuit of mankind. Waist meat is the heart of the pain, most people are dreaming, effortlessly can make their own beauty 'living gold split'. Shaoxing has a middle-aged women, despise their own fat body is too lazy to exercise .At the occasional weight loss products to see TV ads claim that no exercise can be thin, so she spent 500 yuan to sell a course of weight loss products, but not effective. In the 'guidance teacher' confused, she has purchased more than 10 million yuan of products, but still no effect. Unexpectedly, because of her personal information was unhealthy business leak and suffered a series of fraud, loss of 550,000 yuan after the police The Laziness is not only despair, but also in turn to play in the hands of mankind. Get a bowl of soul chicken soup, before bedtime inspirational example.Compared to the physical panic, the spirit of the confusion is the lazy fertile soil. Wonderful ideas and plans countless, but the late step can not take the first step The Buy a fitness card, do a library card, the word software download complete, save the course schedule. Everything is ready, always only lack of action. Each of the next determination, and their own a contest.When writing down the plan carefully, the subconscious voice in the cry: I may really can not do! In desperate despair, while looking at the end, while to the lazy After the despair is guilt, guilt to use the new plan to make up, so the cycle. Although to some extent, 'lazy' technology innovation is the original power, so that human beings live a more comfortable, convenient, low labor intensity of life. But the fragile you and me, in the long history of mankind, learned to be forced 'hard work'. It becomes a kind of unquestionable right choice, subconscious, lazy is wrong, so try every means to make yourself look hard enough to make up for the heart of guilt. Meaning first, not before, and why not a 'formal' spirit of laziness? 3 Someone is using fear to disturb your life Zhejiang University, a professor of psychology in 1998 suffering from diabetes .19 years, in order to resolve the fear of disease in the heart, she fell in love with health care products. Health care equipment, massage, physical therapy bed, spent hundreds of thousands of savings; stuffed the entire bed of health care products have been the majority of the best food period. Until the savings of the savings, she was gradually convinced that the family of well-educated science and technology knowledge, understand that before the purchase of those who rely on health, no use, and more painful than the price of money is 19 years of trembling time. After her memories, a lot of health care products salesman say are particularly funny, for example, their own health products than penguin milk are good, 'penguins are birds, not a mammal, where the milk?' Was fainted by fear, people forget the key to the fate of the fact is in their own hands. American well-known psychologist Martin Gallard made a psychological experiment: a prisoner who was sentenced to death was blindfolded on the bed, the judge pronounced the use of blood transfusion method of punishment. 'Execution', the prisoners listened to the liquid drip The voice, desperately slowly fainted in the past. In fact, the judge just let the assistant on his wrist with a small piece of wood gently across, while opening the faucet. Water drops to the bed under the copper basin in the fall, issued a buzzing sound accompanied by the dripping from the fast to slow , Death row heart had a great fear, he thought his blood a little bit of flow, in the great fear and despair, to give up the hope of life. When people are immersed in the fear of emotions, reason is like paralyzed, will not let our behavior to change the status quo, and when the real dangerous things happen, people do not really feel fear, more time, worry And fear, are in advance or after the 'think' to spontaneously. So that fear is their greatest enemy, we fear that fear itself. 4 Someone is taking advantage of your kindness and madness Gentle knife, knife stabbed to the heart. Known to have had 50,000 fans of the big V 'Tong Yao' to 'beauty shop owner, Fudan University Pa, congenital heart disease but will be strong' and other labels get a lot of attention. 'She' called a friend for a money Treatment of female college students donations, a short period of time to raise 15 million yuan. Can this beautiful illusion behind the mask, was actually a mercenary man in the trampling of friends without preparedness in good faith. Who can be willing to believe that open a pure naked heart, but ushered in the heavenly difficult scam. At the end of 2016, there was a network anchor in Sichuan Daliangshan live to the poor villagers to send money, the audience to the host brush gift, brush flow. But then we all do not know is that these hosts will live in the hands of the villagers after the 'good Section 'and then recovered. "Pseudo Publicity anchor" said after being revealed, in order to program the effect, they will face the child face mud, 'do public as long as the performance, a month earn at least 10 million.' After being shocked again and again by the scale of human nature, we gradually understand that "if reason does not exist, it is kind and meaningless." Maugham said, 'Kindness is the sentry of every one of our feats, where he is on duty and watch us do not do things that are illegal, and it is an implode in the fortress of the self. However, this sentry if the wrong place, good guardian is not evil? This world, never lacking good, lacks the connection of reason. There is no judge to give the standard, that is, in the other people who have the opportunity to ask. 5 The weakness of human nature Everyone has. We have been subject to fear, from the control of the people, was lazy, kindly dominated. Many best-selling books written 'how to overcome the weakness of human nature' and so on, but also the weakness of human nature by the consumer society to use and marketing, and marketing, after all, or weak marketing. We often admit that these objective existence, but still very difficult to recognize themselves. How to avoid weaknesses in their own use? No correct answer at all. Only to keep sober, to deepen their own and the world's awareness, so that weakness to become your value will get rid of 'being used' dilemma. In Zhen Huan biography, Huan Bi is a memorable role in her mother is the offspring of the criminals, from an early age to hide the identity of the palace after the heart than the high days, work scheming, although the loyalty of love to keep moving, Married to the king of the king for the side of the blessing, but Zhen Huan's jealousy, the mother's mother's uneven has been her weakness, and once she misguided. She once said: 'In this palace, the use of the value of people can live, do a good job, easy to be used in order to use other people.' People are really afraid, not being used by others, but no one is willing to use. Recognize their own weaknesses, from another point of view is the advantage. There is a line in the "card house": 'I want to be more cruel to yourself, and use fear to become stronger.' Only those who beat their own weaknesses, are not being used, only enough to be called the real strong.
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